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Sex, Brains, and Abraham Maslow

posted Wednesday, 26 September 2007
Caitlin, a brainy Scotland based Escort contributed to a recent discussion on Punternet, the primary escort's message board, and quite rightly placed sex as a basic need on Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of human needs . But a contributing punter on Punternet disagreed and I'm sure others may roll their eyes and think "as if!" But think again.

Sex is definitely a basic need. Yes, some people willingly give up sex and do very well without it. But abstinence is often a life-style choice providing fulfilment for those that practice it, but it is not the norm in human behaviour and sexual starvation and sexual frustration have a devastating effect on those forced into it.

To quote Steelwheels, one of my blog readers and a client, "Sexual exercise is meant to release beneficial sources of endorphins, which are the bodies natural, feel good chemicals.


A gentle session of love making is like running up and down stairs three times I say bugger the stair lift what better way to keep a marriage a live and an aged heart healthy.


Males who continue to have sex and masturbate in later life are less likely to develop prostate cancer, which is a massive problem for the modern day male."


For the disabled men and women that lack the confidence or opportunity to get intimacy, pent up sexual frustration is driving some of them into deep, deep depression and utter despair. We're all getting on with our lives and flaunting our options either on the streets, on the telly, or on the Internet. Sex, sex all around and not a hole to poke!

And unlike the average Joe who can feasibly pay for sex if push comes to shove, there are so many additional hurdles for the disabled Joe, from financial (since not all disabled men and women can be gainfully employed and have the disposable income for this luxury), to the question of who is going to help him or her up those stairs or care enough to ease them into that bed. And that is for the ones lucky enough to be able to pick up a phone or draft their own email to arrange something.

I heard about a profoundly disabled couple that struck up a relationship in the care home that they lived in. So profoundly disabled that even if placed by their carers on the same bed, they can't do anything because they need assistance with everything, and I mean everything. And the care workers are shit scared of being accused of sexual interference to intervene practically. And even more scared of getting involved in arranging for a "professional" sex worker to visit and assist for fear of aiding and abetting prostitution or procuring sex, etc.  And such conflict plays itself out day after day in other similar situations.

NHS and care staff are in a quandary as to how to approach the question of sex and the disabled person.  They can often tell that the need is there. They just sweep it under the carpet and throw every other solution or resource at the problem. One young and constantly horny wheel chair user emailed me. He'd been to his doctor to follow up treatment for depression. His doctor strongly advised him to join a local gym as the best solution.

"All I need is a fuck," he wanted to scream at his doctor.

"Maybe you should have," I replied. I remembered that memorable line in Sinead's O'Connor Nothing Compares 2 U where she pronounces her doctor a fool for his diagnosis of her problems.

And before we all shrug and pass it off as the problem of the disabled and their parents and their carers, if I had a pound for every disabled man or woman I have met that was not born disabled but was disabled through illness, an accident, etc, I'd have a very heavy collection of coins. For example the case of a man I met recently who, at the brink of puberty was minding his own business in his school play-ground when another kid's actions caused a pillar to fall and crack his skull, causing him irreparable brain damage and life as an adult where he has so far been doomed would only get sex when he pays for it. This could be any one of us in the blink of an eye. Why not get on board now while you can articulate and be understood and listened to?

Sex is a basic need, and has its rightful place there at the bottom of Abraham Maslow's triangle, along with food and water. Have it taken away from you against your wishes and you'll find you want it more than ever with an inconsolable ache that modern society is still determined not to recognise.

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Pru

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1. martin left...
Sunday, 2 December 2007 8:42 pm

No blogging for ages: is everything okay Pru?